Giuliana Depandi : and she speaks italian. everyone fall in love.

she is my new hero

less talk, more action.

actions speak louder than words.

We were all told these words many times through out our lives, but how many of us actually apply these words to our real life? This time, I am going to do things the right way, the way i used to. I have a plan this time, a plan which I want to stick to. I want to make things happen before I speak about them. I really feel good about this. I sometimes feel that this secretiveness will bite me in the ass, but I am going to take my chances. I'm doing this for MYSELF for once. I am really trying to figure things out, take my time, and do it on my own terms. I know this will be good.

good company?

never forget about your attitude. its how people judge you. its how people decided whether they like being around you or not.

maybe i've had it wrong all this time

" life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself"

for the longest time, i used to think that we needed defining moments, experiences, and trials and tribulations in order to find who we are but now that i give it further thought, i'm so wrong. there are so many twist and turns in life that CHANGE who we are. we can't spend our life trying to figure out who we are because just when we think we know, things change. instead, we have the opportunity to do something more benefitial. we have the opportunity to create who we want to do be, do the things we want to do, represent ourselves the way we want to be represented.

the other day i was talking to a friend. this friend mentioned that "this" is the way they are. they explained their relationship, childhood. etc. and i couldn't help but feel like that was such a poor excuse for not taking control of their life. if there is something that we don't like about ourselves, it wont be easy to change, but being able to notice your faults is already the first step. You can't just acknowledge that they are there, you need to change the things you want to be changed. you have the ABILITY to change. no one is so stuck in a rut that they can't change. if they say they are. they are WRONG. they are just STUBBORN.

be the person you want to be today and an even better person tomorrow

distracted

writing. i should be writing more than i have been. i've been quite distracted lately. distracted is probably an understatement. ive been off of track for a while now. i'm not sure if im trying to find any excuse for this not to work of if i'm actually mad about what happened. maybe its a compilation of a lot of little things. maybe i'm just waiting for things to get better and they aren't. so now i realize, its time to take charge of the situation, because obviously, no one else will, and it seems that i am the one paying the price for it.

every generation has the chance to change the world